In a small bowl, combine the softened butter, minced garlic, chopped parsley, kosher salt, black pepper, and red pepper flakes if using. Mix vigorously with a fork until fully homogeneous — no streaks of plain butter remaining. Do not add lemon juice yet. Acid added now can cause the emulsion to weep during hold. Transfer to a small ramekin, cover, and hold at cool room temperature for up to 1 hour, or refrigerate for up to 5 days and bring back to spreadable consistency before service.
4 cloves garlic, minced very fine, 3 tablespoons fresh flat-leaf parsley, finely chopped, 1 teaspoon kosher salt, 0.5 teaspoon freshly cracked black pepper, 0.25 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes